September 24, 2024
Managing your weight can feel like a challenging, daily task.
You check the mirror, hoping for progress, but the same reflection stares back. Every pound feels heavier, and you start to believe that your weight measures your value. There’s always a back-and-forth between not feeling good enough and wishing you could make a change.
How would it feel to finally escape this cycle? As the pounds fall away, so does the stress and anxiety that’s been holding you down. You wake up each day feeling lighter, confident, and full of self-love.
“If you can live harmoniously, I believe that’s where you find true joy in everything you do—no matter what it is, even if it’s just doing laundry.”
Melissa Bayne-Allison
Melissa Bayne-Allison has been where you are now. She’s a vibes-first behavioral change coach and personal trainer who has walked her path to healing.
Melissa has years of fitness and wellness experience. But more than that, she’s lived through many of the struggles you face.
She experienced bullying, survived sexual abuse, and fought her way out of addiction. Through all these, she learned how to move past them and make positive changes in her life.
As a trainer, she assists people in ending emotional eating. She also teaches them how to manage stress and feel good about their bodies.
“You need to get real with how you feel. We cannot move forward if we are holding on to our backpack from high school.”
Melissa Bayne-Allison
Emotional eating is often a response to stress and anxiety. When we face intense emotions, we tend to turn to food for comfort. This can lead to unhealthy eating habits and more stress.
Common triggers include:
These triggers can push us to find relief in food rather than solve the root causes of our emotions.
To reach a healthier weight, Melissa says to start small and be aware of your eating patterns.
Here’s how you can start:
It’s no secret, I used to be significantly overweight and have a nightly ice cream routine. It took me a long time, plus a really rude guy in a bar one night, to see that it wasn’t working for me. However, after I started walking and being mindful of my eating, I was able to control those evening cravings.
A universal approach to fitness and nutrition doesn’t work for everyone. A trainer who understands your goals and needs can be exactly what you need.
Here’s how a trainer can help:
Melissa takes a unique and custom plan in guiding her clients. She starts by having them fill out a “vibe check” application to ensure that she’s the right fit for them. Next, she gives them tools, keeps them accountable, and sets up a system that pushes their growth.
Here are the steps to build a strong support network and stay driven:
Avail of Melissa’s Ridiculous Day Special one-on-one coaching. Message Melissa at Me*@Th**********.com and mention RIDICULOUS or Homes That Heal podcast.
Revamp your home into a healing space. My Home Wellness Checklist is loaded with tips to refresh your space and brighten your mood.
Achieving a healthier weight is about taking back your life. Understand your triggers, track your habits, and shift from restriction to mindful choices. Don’t let past struggles define your future. Having a trainer who understands you can make it easier to love yourself and feel good in your body.
At the end of my conversation with Melissa, I asked her what homes that heal mean to her. She shared how appreciation and acceptance can lift the vibe in any space.
“A home that heals is about bringing acceptance and appreciation into your life and space. When you bring positive energy into your space, it extends to how you care for your surroundings.”
Melissa Bayne-Allison Bio:
Mel is a “VIBES FIRST” Behavior Change Coach, personal trainer, and Domestic Violence+Sexual Assault consultant.
She has been supporting people in leveling up their lives, and health for the last 15 years.
Three years ago, she launched her own coaching+consulting business, Thrive & Empower, LLC, to serve people in a way that felt+vibed more like her!
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